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	Check out this hot,new video game! / NANCY &. BRADLEY http://hattrick.org/Club/Players/Player.aspx?playerId=210005836 Click on this link and play an exciting football game. On the team is Simeon McCarty.

	Have They Forgotten? / Nancy When it seems like others have forgotten, it has comforted me to see write.and talk with Nicholas' friends. They have shared their memories with me and their love for my son. Others forget special days ,anniversaries..and Nick's birthday. This past July I had Sim's graveside service on Nick's birthday . It was a beautiful.if somewhat windy day as we took turns spreading the ashes over Nick's grave as his daddy wished. The wind whipped to a noticeable fury as the prayer was given and the program begun . It subsided after I. my sister and niece poured the ashes from the bag and raked them into the ground atop Nicholas' grave .. Every family member and friend participated in turn. The experience was very emotional but rewarding. I think we will LONG remember that special dedication day and birthday. I am now planning the next visit to the cemetery ;a balloon release and the planting of 2 trees in memory of my Sim's. I forgot to add earlier that we got together for an informal meal after the program at the Dyche Memorial Park.. Have they forgotten? I'm speaking of the collective family and friends around the world who knew The McCarty's individually or Simeon Nicholas particularly. Not always. Most time they are afraid to bring up memories for fear of adding more pain. While I openly remember Nicholas so do others. I think I have a good support system that can carry me through the difficult days into healing.

	Have They Forgotten? / Nancy McCarty Has Everyone Forgotten? The first weeks after Nicholas and Sim were gone there was emotional grief support. Friends occasionally dropped by with food. Cards arrived fairly often. Phone calls of encouragement came quite often. Then it ended. People became scarce and when around they often remained silent. It has made me feel like everyone has forgotten Nick and his daddy and I am left with a lonely emptiness. Sim and Nicholas' leaving made others feel uncomfortable. Friends and family alike often seem afraid to mention their names for fear of causing a sad memory for me. What they fail to realize is that it is very healing for me to hear Nick and Bud spoken as well as to hear stories that bring warm memories to mind. I long to hear about Nicholas from others. It often helps me to talk about Nicholas to others breaking the ice of being uncomfortable. I love to hear Nick's name spoken warmly. The family and friends can know that that they too can talk about times spent with Nicholas or Sim. It can be healing for them and help our bonds strengthen if we go through this journey of grief hand-in-hand There are those who say I should ''move on'' and not waste time with online memorials lost birthdays and angel date anniversaries. They will not recognize that my loss is a continuing empty void that needs attention. The absence of their support leads me to believe my precious family has been forgotten. Time has not provided that kind of healing..

	ROSES FOR YOU,MY LOVE / NANCY TO SIM Roses for you, sweetheart! You loved beautiful roses! You shopped ,more than once, for mother and me! Sometimes there was not a particular holiday or occasion. You showed your love and thoughtfulness. We really cherish our necklace watches too. This lit candle is for you,too,Sim McCarty. I have known you and been near you since the late 60's. Especially charming and romantic was our wedding in Morehead,Kentucky,March 13,1970. We were dressed in our finest with our finest and best friends entowe-J.T. and Louise McGuiey from Shelbyville.

	Beloved Sim / Nancy I love you and miss you very much Sim (Bud) I hope you get to be with Nick and maybe Hannah is there too. Sim F. McCarty June 20 Sat morning 2009 Sim N.McCarty (Nick) June 7 Sat. morning 2005 Hannah, Nick's shepherd/husky August, 2005

	GONE / Nancy I've thought of several things to discuss with him but he is gone. I've almost gone looking for him. I've rushed to tell him something said by his precious President Barack Obama or Kentucky's Coach Patino. I wipe the smile off my face as I remind myself that there will never be a thought or story I will share again with him. No more afternoon chats and gentle teases. Never another uplifting cathartic discussion about Nicholas or the ghosts of 'that night'. 4 years earlier. Who am I? I used to be the wife and helpmate of a wonderful godly man. But we are gone forever. He's in the room Christ prepared for him in Heaven. I'm here----without him-----the single most influential, charismatic figure of my adult life.The person whose opinion mattered the most and who had to be sought out on every thought---large or small. He nor I realized it was that serious until June 2o when he died. Sim McCarty, a gentle affable man; giving and kind to friends and family or stran gers alike, will never know the depth of his worth on this earth He and my Nicholas are both gone. It hurts. I miss them. I miss HIM. He was my buddy. That was his hometown nickname that I didn't use but it seemed the world did. On the day of his memorial at our son's Laurel County Kentucky gravesite an acquaintance was glad to see us and was, no doubt, happy about our little celebration for the life of Sim McCarty.He just needed one little key piece. Was Sim F. McCarty any kin to "Buddy" McCarty? True story. Just ask Gary at the station. I'm tempted to ask God why he had to die! But I choose to stand firm in our faith---------------my faith and Sim's faith. I choose to become trusting . I won't question God's motives.His judgement, sovereignity or His love for me. For I know His Ways are not my ways. And His ways are righteous.. I will trust in His Master plan.-------- I will draw strength from Him................. I will remember His Promises-------------

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This memorial website was created by NANCY MCCARTY on 09/07/2005.
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Little Nick

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Audio & Video

	Nick would have enjoyed this
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	I WANT TO STROLL OVER HEAVEN WITH YOU--ALAN JACKSON
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	I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU---DOLLY PARTON
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	HE'S MY SON--NARK SHULTZ
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	YOU'RE NOT ALONE----MICHAEL JACKSON
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	WHO YOU'D BE TODAY--KENNY CHESNEY
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	A LIGHTER SHADE OF BLUE---SKIP IRVING
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	GO REST HIGH ON THAT MOUNTAIN--VINCE GILL
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Memorial Candles

	NANCY &. BRADLEY, SOP lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "WE HOPE THE WORDS WE USE TODAY SUCCESSFULLY EXPRESS THE WAY WE FEEL ABOUT YOU AND WHY YOU WERE THE BEST."

	BRADLEY lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "ENJOYING THE WORLD AS MUCH AS YOU COULD TO HAVE HAD MORE TIME NICK----- YOU SHOULD!!"

	BRADLEY lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "BEING OUTDOORS WAS SOMETHING YOU LOVED. BASEBALL,SOC-CER,EVEN FISHING. GETTING ON WITH LIFE--- NOT WISHING!!"

	BRADLEY &. NANCY lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "WHETHER A RACE BETWEEN FORD OR CHEVELLE LAUGHTER AND STORIES I'LL ALWAYS RE-TELL."

	BRADLEY &. NANCY lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "In your red Chevy S-10 Waiting for the game or race to begin You could count on Nick IN THE WIN."

	Nancy &. Bradley McCarty Family Quips lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "Weekends in Frankfort,riding around A wealth of our stories will ever abound."

	Bradley McCarty Family Quips lit a candle on 09/19/2009: "An engine with power, Nascar races Gave you many a happy hour."

	BRADLEY &. NANCY MCCARTY'S -2 lit a candle on 09/07/2009: "THEY BOTH LEFT ON A JUNE DAY."

	Mom lit a candle on 09/07/2009: "Nicholas had a toothache the last days.Love its sweet mouth.and pretty teeth"

	Mom lit a candle on 09/06/2009: "''If winning is not everything, why keep score?'' COMEDIAN NICK WOULD ASK."

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